Rhonda Rabow’s Newsletter
The Issues Inventory Couple Compatibility Test
When considering how compatible you are with your partner, there are many aspects to consider. It isn’t only what you have in common, but also what you don’t have in common that can affect the health of your relationship.
Take the Issue Compatibility Test now and see where you fall on the scale. Then
ask you partner to take the test and compare your results. Each issue should be measured on a scale of 0-10. The lowest score signaling no problem at all, while the highest score indicates a serious issue.
e.g. if finances are not an issue at all in your relationship, you would give it a 0. If however, your partner gives it a 6 or 7; you may want to discuss why each of you perceives the issue so differently and how that may impact your relationship.
You _____ Partner _____ Finances
You _____ Partner _____ Sex
You _____ Partner _____ Career
You _____ Partner _____ In-laws
You _____ Partner _____ Communication
You _____ Partner _____ Alcohol and/or drug problems
You _____ Partner _____ Friends
You _____ Partner _____ Aging parents
You _____ Partner _____ Children
You _____ Partner _____ Parenting styles
You _____ Partner _____ Conflict resolution
You _____ Partner _____ Leisure activities
You _____ Partner _____ Privacy
You _____ Partner _____ Trust
You _____ Partner _____ Household responsibilities
You _____ Partner _____ Extended family
You _____ Partner _____ Retirement planning
You _____ Partner _____ Health and physical fitness
You _____ Partner _____ Religion
You _____ Partner _____ Other
If you would like to contact me about discussing this further, please feel free to call:
514-697-5070 or reach me by email at: RERabow@aol.com
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An Empowering Message
Visit www.idontstink.com and you will find 3 minutes of people doing random acts of kindness. It is very inspiring.
Recommended books and Readings -
From Panic to Power by Lucinda Bassett
Healing Grief by James Van Praagh
Guest Rhonda discussing Anxiety on CJAD radio,
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Best wishes for all.
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